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Asking A Girl Out - 2 Major Pitfalls To Avoid

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Having trouble asking a girl out? It\'s probably because of either impatience or fear of rejection. Read on for help with both.

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Is there a right way and a wrong way of asking a girl out? There's certainly a wrong way -- several in fact -- and at the bottom of it all lie impatience and the natural fear of rejection.

Either of these two factors is a recipe for failure, so let's deal with each of them.

1. Impatience

Don't charge in and ask her out too soon. This would quite possibly undermine your chances.

Look at it from her point of view. Even if she likes you she may not want to date you. And even if she would be willing to date you then she most probably won't want to give you the impression she is "easy".

Wait until you can ask her out as a natural "next step". This may require a lot of self-restraint and patience, but you'll have a much greater chance of her agreeing to it.

In the meantime there has to be a certain amount of interaction between the two of you. This could be anything - exchanging smiles and a bit of flirting, perhaps, or maybe simply speaking with her from time to time through being in the same social group.

Over time you'll be able to gauge whether she likes you enough to agree to a date. If you keep your eyes and ears open you'll probably find out if she already has a boyfriend, what kind of guys she likes (and whether you fit in to that category) and a lot of other useful things as well.

2. Fear of rejection

Why should she reject you?

If you're pretty sure you're her type, and you've exercised patience, then she probably won't reject you, but if you still feel she just might then try to establish the most probable reasons.

Could it be that she just doesn't feel comfortable about the idea, or feels you've asked her before getting to know her enough (which comes back to the impatience factor)?

Perhaps she already has a boyfriend and doesn't want to hurt him by going out with you. A little delicate digging should tell you if that is a possibility. If the coast is clear then you may still have to bide your time a little longer.

She'll feel comfortable about the idea if you show her that you can enhance her life a little, for example by being able to make her laugh and enjoy herself.

But if you come on strong and too soon, trying to get physical before she's ready, then she'll be in the position of trying to cool the relationship, and she's not going to do that by agreeing to a date with you.

So let it happen entirely naturally. That really is the only way to date a girl. Your opportunity will present itself when you're both ready.

You should now feel much more confident in asking a girl out.

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