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Four Simple Mind Control Skills for Better Relationships

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Mind Control for Inspired Relationships 1. Choose Your Outcomes Wisely 2. Remain Independent 3. Fill Your Voids 4. Ignore advice you didn\'t ask for By exerting influence on our mind, we can change our destiny. It is not as simple as the New Age guru\'s make out. I know many of them advocate mind techniques but their relationships are crappy. Nobody who can affect their own mind would attract a crappy relationship. This is a contradiction.

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1. Choose Your Outcomes Wisely

A man who is stressed is no lover. A woman who is needy, is no partner. A friend who is in crisis is no friend and parents who are always busy are not really doing their job.

It is so easy to let life dictate our destiny. A stressed husband will become single. A needy partner will become dejected. A friend in crisis will become an enemy and parents who are always busy will see their busY-ness waste another life.

To dictate your destiny exert your influence over your body. Make it your student, not your teacher.

By determining the best for your body you must determine what you want. If you want pleasure, then determine that this is your number 1 priority and please don't complain that you are fat, unhealthy or ugly. Pleasure has a downside, a balancing opposite called pain. All pain comes from the seeking of pleasure. So, if you want pleasure in the body, please accept the balance, pain.

However, if you want love and relationship then your body pleasure is not a priority. If your body pleasure is a priority in relationship then you are going to have short term pleasure long term pain.

If you want long term pleasure, then you need to accept short term pain and that pain is simply self-discipline. What goes into your body for pleasure causes pain. What goes into your body for the love of health and relationship and family causes only love and health. Do you eat for pleasure, or to deal with emotional pain like tiredness and depression, funk or hopelessness? If so, that remedy is going to take you to a regretful destiny. Short term pleasure relief, long term pain.

Determine your outcome, the destiny you want. If you want a loving and inspired relationship eat and drink to create it. If you want short term pleasure and instantaneous gratification, admit it, and eat for it. There's no right or wrong here, just consequence. (alcohol, sugar, coffee, dairy, pastry are all short term gratification foods, salt is the best one)

2. Remain Independent

In your relationships there are going to be disagreements in opinion and style. If there's any anxiety or emotion from such disagreements then it's wise to let it go. Two people in a relationship need disagreement. Agreement will be boring and uneventful.

If your partner takes offence at disagreements then learn to shut your words, but don't shut your brain. Your opinion is weighted with 50% of the accuracy of truth. So, simply try to add their opinion to your opinion and hold two opinions as valid instead of wanting either agreement or their compliance in your opinion.

Opinions are where we lose our independence. The more opinionated we are the less independent we are. Opinions are just ways the ego has to create identity. If my opinion of Whale Hunting is both a good and a bad thing then I have no identity from that opinion. If, of course, I become anti Whale Hunting, I form an opinion and that is the basis on which I build a false identity. "Anti Whale Hunting Person." This is Ego...and the loss of free independent thought, at its worst.

One can also lose independence in a relationship through opinions on religious beliefs, environmental beliefs and behavioural beliefs. Such things are poor frameworks for healthy love to live.

3. Fill Your Voids

Our mind is not as liberated as we think. It is conditioned to a certain range of thinking and therefore mind control becomes more simple when we know how our mind is going to work. Our mind seeks to fill our voids.

So, much love is not love at all. Instead, it's the filling of voids and the attraction that's associated with it.

Peter meets Mary. Two years ago, if Peter met Mary he wouldn't have blinked sideways. But now, suddenly Peter finds Mary attractive. Mary found Peter interesting two years ago, and nothing has changed. She's a little surprised. "What changed?" asks Mary.

What changed is Peter's voids. Two years ago Peter wasn't wanting babies. Two years ago Peter wanted money. Two years ago Mary didn't fill Peter's voids. Now, Peter wants babies and Mary is perfect.

Jane left Michael. But she keeps going back. While they are together Jane recognises that she's got unfulfilled needs, more voids than Michael can meet. So, when together Jane is discontent and anxious. However, when they part, Jane suddenly realises she has some voids that, while she was with Michael got filled. So, Jane is caught between a rock and a hard place, unfulfilled with Michael, unfulfilled without him. She yoyo's back and forward in her relationship and silly Michael, takes her back. Obviously Jane fills one of Michael's voids too. The dance goes on till they both get sick of it, or sick from it.

The best way to take care of this is to know yourself. Know your voids and respect that relationships and your attraction to your partner are void filling. If ever you fill those voids for yourself, the attraction for that partner will die out.

Mind control in this sense is to be aware of the voids your partner fills in your life and always remember how important that person is to you. It's easy to become complacent and take someone for granted and then want to leave... better to stay humble and thankful.

4. Ignore Advice You Didn't Ask For

Your body is going to be either a student of yours, or your teacher, or both. There's no need for advice from the outside. Your body will tell you when you screw up, lose your mind, become emotionally overloaded or off track. And, as a good student it will respond well when what you eat, do and think are authentic.

All sorts of people give themselves permission to coach you. The worst of those is your partner. Love is learning to shut up. So, if your partner keeps advising you on matters you didn't ask for advice about, just know that the more you listen, the more you'll get and the more you listen and get, the less loved you are. People only try to change others in order to make it easier to love them.

Conclusion

A man who is stressed is no lover. A woman who is needy, is no partner. A friend who is in crisis is no friend and parents who are always busy are not really doing their job. It is so easy to let life dictate our destiny. So, a little mind control can go a long way.

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