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Gay Dating Bulletin: The 6 Mistakes Youre Probably Making On A Date

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The six most dangerous mistakes you can make when you\'re trying to meet or date gay guys. It\'s #6 that\'ll kill ya!

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MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A "Nice" Guy

Guys aren't attracted to other guys based on a "nice" quotient. That's how you choose friends. They choose romantic partners based on a powerful physical and psychological attraction.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn't make a guy feel a powerful attraction. Now, does that mean you oughta be meaner than a wet cat? Of course not. Read on.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince" Him To Like You

If you're like most guys and you express interest in somebody that doesn't return it, you either stay away or try to subtly convince the guy to feel differently by being oh so nice.

Well, I have news for you... You can't convince a guy to feel differently about you with logic and reasoning. Think about it. If YOU don't "feel it" for another guy, how in the world would he be able to change your mind by being nice? He wouldn't. And neither can you.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Him For Approval Permission

Guys are never attracted to men who kiss up to them... EVER. Just ask any attractive guy if "nice" guys who chase him around and want his approval are appealing.

MISTAKE #4: Trying To Impress Him With Dinner and Store-Bought Gifts.

How many times have you taken a guy out to a nice dinner and then had him reject you for someone who didn't treat him half as well? Here's why you shouldn't try to buy your way into his heart (or pants): Because buying him something before he develops an attraction is like saying, "I don't think you'll like me for who I am so I'm going to buy your affection."

MISTAKE #5: Sharing Your Feelings Too Early.

Good looking guys aren't that common (if they were, you wouldn't be reading this newsletter!). They get A LOT of attention from other guys, precisely because they are fairly rare. A good-looking guy dates a lot and gets hit on even more. Telling him you like him, YOU REALLY, REALLY like him after the first date or two is going to make him run for the hills faster than saying, "Jeffrey Dahmer."

MISTAKE #6: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all. I know, you don't like to make yourself look weak or helpless. Or ask for help. I know I didn't. So I suffered for years, until I decided to get help. For the longest time, I couldn't meet a man if he was gasping for air and I was the only guy with an oxygen tank. I'd go out to the bars locked, cocked and ready to rock and left limp, lame and ready to quit.

I went on a mission. I would find out how to approach and hold a conversation with guys whether they showed interest or not. I had only one rule: No manipulation. No sales or high-pressure techniques. I wanted to do it authentically, without having to drink, drug, bribe, or kidnap them. Or worse, stay till closing time and wait for the last-call yard sale. Yes, I wanted to bring home the bacon without hitting it over the head with a frying pan.

So, I interviewed gay guys who could walk into a bar, a club, a coffee shop and leave with a number, a hope or a man. I asked them what worked, what didn't, and how to handle rejection. I talked to psychologists, sociologists and body language experts. I watched, I observed, I researched. I studied, learned, revised. I lathered, rinsed, repeated.

I got so good I started coaching guys on the art of attraction. The result is a killer book that you can download and be reading in literally MINUTES from right now.

It's JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of specific strategies for overcoming fear, approaching guys, building attraction and getting a date, a number (or a notch on your bedpost!). So download it now or check out my blog for more articles.

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