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True Love Is Easy, Not a Marathon

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There is an epidemic of 25+ year olds, looking for love in seemingly all the wrong places. It is as though their ability to connect and trust are finding derailment instead of movement ahead into a life of commitment.

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There is an epidemic of 25+ year olds, looking for love in seemingly all the wrong places. It is as though their ability to connect and trust are finding derailment instead of movement ahead into a life of commitment. I think it is important to say to yourself, "What am I looking for and more importantly, Why?"

Men, generally, have to be experiencing a strong physical attraction, something equivalent to being hit with a MACK truck. Vince Gil wrote, "I go weak in the knees and I loose my breath, I try to speak, but the words won't come, I am so scared to death." The ladies see things differently. They want to know he's fun,he's reasonably good looking, he's responsible, and he is strong enough to fight for me. There are many out there who would fit into that formula, if love were so simple.

Love is not simple, but it should be easy. If you find you are trying hard to win someone, stop. Love comes like the comfort and softness of wrapping up in a warm blanket with rain outside and the need to do nothing all day. There is no need to impress the one loved, to change them, to manipulate them into loving us. It is realizing they must meet us where we are. After all, we really don't move that much from where we started. If we are unorganized or forgetful, chances are we will be that into our 80's. With love, you can learn to be thankful for those messes!

Love is feeling the freedom to say "no" when something is wrong for us or "yes" when a growth opportunity presents itself. We can agree to disagree, yet we can still challenge each other. To grow in love together means closeness, sharing, laughing, as well as striving, fighting, showing up with all of our junk. If we cannot count on our closest connections to call us on the carpet, who will? The trick in relating in all of these areas is balance. Our fighting can be done is such a way that it is wounding instead of stretching.

Who have you dated where the relationship was simply easy? It showed up like a breezy, summer day and felt like the sunshine in your face. How did it leave you? Are you comparing everyone else to this person? If this person is open to seeing you again and the issues that caused distance are not insurmountable, call. Otherwise, look at what drove you away. If you were looking for a "fixer-upper" instead of a place to call "home", then change your radar. Men, you must realize the surface beauty fades. Those 8's will be sinking to a 6 in just a few years, but the "home" feeling is forever. Ladies, men walking the road toward personal progress with an ability to still let us shine for who we are is all we can expect.

So, if you have let that home feeling relationship slip away, take heart. One may be crossing your path shortly. Don't be as quick to let this one slip away, because to find love that is at rest is a God-send. It transcends beauty, accomplishment, or status. It hits us where we live and makes it possible to find peace in who God has created us to be.

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