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Understanding Men: Opposites Attract

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If you\'ve been struggling with understanding men and why your husband doesn\'t always get along with you, hopefully this article will shed a bit of light on the issue of attitudes in a relationship. When it boils down to it, I\'m usually the more positive out of my wife and I. You might think that it\'s better if both people are positive or negative, since they have more in common but I think that it\'s better how it is. I\'ll explain why this is the case and talk about a few ways you can be opposite to your man to increase his love and respect for you.

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If you've been struggling with understanding men and why your husband doesn't always get along with you, hopefully this article will shed a bit of light on the issue of attitudes in a relationship. When it boils down to it, I'm usually the more positive out of my wife and I. You might think that it's better if both people are positive or negative, since they have more in common but I think that it's better how it is. I'll explain why this is the case and talk about a few ways you can be opposite to your man to increase his love and respect for you.

1. You're Positive, He's Negative

So this is the opposite to how my wife and I are like. The woman is positive and the man is negative. This is a pretty common combination and this usually works out pretty well.

The common belief is that the man feels more stress and is therefore more likely to have a negative or cynical attitude. Having the wife who's always bright and positive dilutes this negativity I guess and balances out his emotions, especially when he's feeling particularly dark.

2. You're Negative, He's Positive

OK, now we're going into my territory. My wife does quite a bit of work in project management, so she's the one who's stressed out. I am actually working on a few home business projects at the moment and have that over-positive entrepreneurial mindset.

My wife supports me and uses her negativity to help me be realistic. I tend to bite off more than I can chew. If she sees me doing this, she will point out the flaws in my plans, saving me a lot of time and money.

3. You're the Same

From the times that I've been talking with couples who have the same disposition, I find that there simply isn't the balance there in their relationship. If they're both positive, they tend to be unrealistic. When reality comes and bites them in the bum, it hurts that much more.

If they're both negative, well they simply let themselves get into trouble more. They fight, they squabble and there's a great deal more tension. It's a tall ask to try and ask one person to compromise and change their entire viewpoint.

If you're struggling with understanding men in general, I would recommend that you try to look at how you get along with your hubby. See how you both react to negative and positive stimuli. Who is the plus and who is the minus? You need that sort of balance to have a stable relationship.

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