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Making Male Chastity Stories Work For You

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We\'ve all read male chastity stories and come away thinking \"what a load of nonsense!\". And it\'s not surprising, since most of them are written by fantasists, wannabes and people simply out for a cheap thrill.

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While male chastity stories can be erotic and a turn-on in and of themselves, this isn't the only or even the chief extent of their utility.

Let me explain.

One of the hardest things about the male chastity lifestyle in my experience isn't so much the actual living of it... as it is broaching the subject to your partner in the first place.

In my research and experience it seems the overwhelming majority of couples embracing the male chastity lifestyle do so because the man somehow brought the subject up and led the woman to investigate the subject in more depth. And, indeed, that's what happened in my case with John, and is tangentially why I've written this and other articles.

Only rarely, it seems, is the subject brought up by the woman.

In any case, it isn't really too important who brings the subject up because in either case the fundamental problem remains: how do you do it without freaking the other person out?

Fortunately one answer is to use male chastity stories to build an emotional and erotic atmosphere rather than just mechanically explain the bare facts of the matter.

The reason for doing this is when we're emotionally involved in something, if that emotion is positive, it becomes more acceptable to us (and by the same token we can make something less acceptable by invoking a negative emotion, such as hate, disgust, loathing, etc.).

And indeed, emotional connection is at the root of all good marketing and persuasion techniques.

And the Easiest Way to Get Your Woman or Man Hot Under the Collar About the Male Chastity Lifestyle?

By telling her or him some male chastity stories.

However, it's not necessarily so simple as blurting out "I found this story on a forum the other day", because that might then require some explanation all by itself.

Of course, if your relationship is such that this won't cause any problems, then by all means go ahead.

But just in case you'd rather not do this, I have some simple strategies to get these stories in under the radar, so to speak.

The first technique involves a small amount of deception. I don't make any recommendation or value judgement about this - I'm merely giving you pointers t how you can make male chastity stories work for you.

All you need to do is write out your male chastity fantasy as you'd like to unfold in your own life and then share it with your partner in the context of "Hey, my friend Joe just emailed me this really hot story... what do you think?"

Now, it's possible your partner is not going to be in the least bit interested... but if you've written the story well and heavily laboured the benefits to the character representing (in your mind) your partner, then the chances are it's going to work very well indeed.

A second way, similar to the first, is to tell the story orally - repeat it as a conversation you had with someone at work, for example. Something along these lines, "I heard the most amazing story today from Bill at work. He was telling me about a friend of his he used to know. Well this guy and his wife used to..." and carry on unfolding the story as you'd wish your own fantasy to unfold.

A third technique isn't strictly using male chastity stories but it's close enough. This is actually exactly how John got me interested in the male chastity lifestyle. It's a little more direct and, frankly, more honest than the other two approaches, but takes a lot more courage, I suspect.

What you do is get your partner into a receptive mood, perhaps when you're cuddling up in bed having just made love, or when you've shared a romantic moment and steer the conversation around to fantasies. It's important you do this at a moment when you're close - if you do it as your partner is running around looking for car-keys, you're likely to get a withering response.

The ultimate idea is to suggest your both write down your top few fantasies on a piece of paper and then swap them. Your fantasy, of course, or at least one of them, is going to be the male chastity lifestyle (if you're supremely lucky your partner's will be, too, but that would be something of a miracle!).

As with the male chastity stories, write this fantasy in a way that clearly shows the benefits to your partner and don't just make it all about yourself.

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